Friday, March 27, 2009

4 sisters...

Lately God has laid it on my heart to go out into Kibera on Thursdays to talk to some of these "mama's" I've met at taylor shops and fruit stands.  I already have some type of relationship with them.  They at least know my face, so why not? 
Finally,  last week the Lord told me that this Thursday was the day.  I was planning to go by myself because I thought Shauna might be busy.  She asked me about my plans for Thursday and I told her.  She, too, had been having the same urging.  So together we went yesterday.   We had both been with the guys to watch them evangelize... now it was our turn.  We went separately from the guys because we were taking some new friends back to their house.  Once we got there... before we ever set foot on the ground we prayed over our soon to be attempts at sharing the love of Christ.  Neither of us claimed any type of knowledge or know-how to do this.  We were truly going on faith in hopes of being obedient.  We arrived at a particular taylor that had been on my heart all week.  Come to find our it was 2 sisters.  They weren't doing anything so we made small talk.  Then I began to lead into a series of questions I had heard Chris begin with.  Honestly, I expected to get tangled in my words and super nervous.  What if I mess up?  None of that happened.  I felt the presence of God there with us.  I was able to stay focused on the conversation and answer their questions.  Shauna and I were able to feed off of one another.  They asked some great questions and seemed to understand.  It wasn't easy though.  We did not have an interpreter so we had to go off of our tiny bit of swahili and their little english.  It took us the whole entire time to witness to these mamas.  But you know what?  We entered and met 2 sisters... we left 4 sisters in Christ.  We have made plans to go back and visit them next week to see how their discipleship material is coming along.  
Praise the Lord for His gentle nudges to get out and do more...

Wednesday, March 25, 2009

The "Most" of these...

Often times when you are involved in mission work to developing world countries, you meet so many with so little.  You'll spend time with a family that has lost one, two, or many members due to a horrible illness, famine, or injustice.  There are people who have been victimized by some part of their cruel world and left with so little.  I've met some whose plight has been a lifelong struggle against intense poverty, abandonment, and with little hope.  

But in all of these situations, there is one common theme; "little".  They all have something little.   Their financial situation is little, their material possessions are little, the hope is little, or their chances are little.  They all have, though very small, ... something.

Yesterday, I met some with none.   Where the afore mentioned groups had "little", these had absolutely, unequivocally nothing.  The story that I am about to tell you, is difficult for me because I am going to try to convey the lives of a group of young boys that are hard to fathom and difficult to understand...


Within the Kawangware slum there is an area where we often will see young boys hanging around.  It's a filthy area where pools of stagnant water and fields of mud cover the surroundings when it rains.  It's void of vegetation and littered with trash.  This area has been "claimed" by a group of Street Boys who spend the entire day dwelling in this open area of nothingness.  They range anywhere from 20 years of age down to as young as 9.   They don't go to school, have jobs, enjoy time indoors with family and friends because of one uniting commonality:

                                    They are homeless. 

Day after day, they wake and slumber in the open air of the Kawangware slum.  Some sleep out in the actual dirt streets of Kawangware.  Others find an abandoned car with which to climb under to slumber the night away.  There are no extended family members to take them in.  There are no friends or well-wishers who invite them over for a meal, some company, or a quick wash.  They fight each day on their own.  They, alone, are responsible for their safety, basic needs, and
 tomorrows.  Most of those three things never get found either.  There is no one to bail them out, no one offering aid, no ministries providing meals to the homeless, no one giving out pairs of shoes, opportunities for schooling, jobs, or even a word of encouragement.   

No one.

Most of them are addicted to sniffing glue.  They wear larger coats to conceal used liquor bottles filled with glue which they sniff throughout the day.  The sniffing of glue does 2 things to them: 1.  It makes them forget about the struggles and pain of their lives and 2.  It takes away the pangs of hunger so they don't have to deal with the fact that they haven't eaten in days.  I saw some as young as 10 years old sniffing this glue and unable to stand straight.  Other's eyes were glassy and unable to focus on you.  They stumbled around and would fade in and out of consciousness.  

Those that hadn't started sniffing, knew that it was only a matter of time before they succumbed to the pressure and strains to take up this    terrible addiction.   Soon it will ruin their kidneys and damage their brains.  More than likely it will happen before they are 30. ...
... if they live that long.

We met 46 of them.  Their clothes were covered in layers of stains, tattered with holes, and worn so thin they'd fall off within days.  All them had air conditioned shoes.  You know the kind: with holes around the toes, no shoe strings, and broken soles.  

All of them had stories that defied understanding.  All of them were desperate for help.  I laid awake last night thinking of all I had and comfort I was living in, while at that very moment, they were thinking one thing: Survive.  Even if it meant stealing in order to make it, they would.  My heart is so burdened for least of these, like my new friends.  

I think we were the first people (Kenyan or non-Kenyan) to stop and spend time with them.  We had decided to spend the whole morning with this group of young men.  Rich shared his past with them.  He talked about the familiarity he had with being bound to an addiction.  ... Some listened.  Others were too far gone off the influences of fumes to even try and pay attention.  Those that did listen began to realize that we were real.  We were serious.  We weren't looking to take advantage of them.  We didn't want anything from them.  Our desire was simple and sincere.  We nailed that home with an example of our genuine concern: food. When we told them that we had food and drink for all of them,... they took notice.  We walked with this mob of forgotten lives back to the Kawangware Center where we gave them chai and mandazis (doughnut-type food).  

I'd like to tell you that they all prayed to receive Christ and immediately changed their lifestyles.  I'd love nothing more than to tell you their behavior was perfect and that they voluntarily gave up their glue bottles and broken hearts.  I would like to tell you they walked away with a new-found view on life. ...  I would like to tell you all that, ... but it wouldn't be true.  This is a long a difficult process that we began on Tuesday, March 24th, 2009.  I have no idea how long, how much, in what way, and with whose help it will take to fully bring crowns to these princes, but we are willing to love them till it happens.  

With each challenge in this process, the possible rewards are even greater.  We saw glimpses of this on Tuesday, but it will take so much more than what we've done thus far.  There is a mountain in front of us, but we know God has told us, "Climb!"  We need your prayers.  We need your encouragement.  And we need you to realize something very very 
important:  When you have absolutely nothing,... then there's more room for God to fill.  They aren't the "least".  They are the Most!  

They just don't know it yet.




Sunday, March 22, 2009

Dropping like flies...

I see our readers are dropping like flies due to our lack of posts.  Normally I will warn you guys when there is going to be TEN DAYS between posts... but I honestly didn't see this coming.  Please accept our humblest appology.  POLY SANA!  

So here is the down low.  My poor man has stayed up until 2am working on this video- i know at least 3 night last week.  Finally, he got it done and it is REALLY great.  He had to do all of the work on Shauna's computer because our really nice video camera is not compatible with our Mac.  Well... it's half compatible.  It will upload video but never audio.  (Anyone looking for a nice, very gently used Sony video camera??) 
Any how, Chris completed the video but it has to be "published" or formatted first.  Every time he tries to publish it it won't work.  We finally figured out there is something wrong with her computer.  As SOON as we can get that fixed I promise that the awesome video will be up.
Stay tuned for some exciting news about what Chris will be doing in the coming weeks.  

Friday, March 13, 2009

Grrrr.... INTERNET!

We are going on a week without internet.  African Internet has been a challenge to say the least.  I wrote 28 emails the other day at the coffee shop only to find out that their internet doesn't and hasn't worked either.  Shauna let me borrow her internet long enough to send those a couple days later.  Better late than never!  Any way- bear with us on responding.  It's not that we don't... it's just that we can't.  I try to write blogs and emails offline and post and send once I get the internet. Keep writing!  We WILL get back to you!

Thanks,
management

  

Saturday, March 7, 2009

"Coming soon to a theater near you!"

I'm working on "Share in the Growth" now.  I know some of you are a part of this.  If you don't know what this is click on the link.  If you would like to be a part of it leave a comment here or email us at chrisandlindyt@gmail.com.  

Thursday I was able to go with Chris into Kibera as they did street evangelism.  I haven't been out with him for street evangelism in 13 months.  And I have only been out with him once.  It was really awesome to watch my man tell people about Jesus and how he has radically changed his life.  To be able to watch him read God's words and tell people about the TRUTH. (Watching my man tell people about Jesus in the slums is REALLY hot.)  I very much enjoyed being able to go out with Chris and Meshak.  I learned a lot from going out with them.  Chris taught me so much about adapting the questions and conversation depending on the group of people you are conversing with.  Meshak did an awesome job translating and keeping them tuned in to the message.  It ended up being a great day for the Kingdom.  Despite rejection, apathy, and challenges; 11 people made first-time decisions for Christ!  What a blessing!  Now, we must pray for these young believers so that they will "thrive" and not merely "survive" this new life.  This is the focus of the "Share the Growth" project you all are a part of.  


Pastor Jacob Kiyondi translating to a group in Kawangware.

Chris, sharing to a group of "kijana" or "youth" (swahili)

(Chris is now writing, so I will not be elaborating on my wife's dillusion of my grandeur.)

Next week, Rich and I are going to be working on something I have been hoping to do for some time now.  I told many of you that we hoped to create a video on the various ministries and life of the people of Kenya.  Starting on Tuesday, we are going to be chronicling the Street Evangelism and Discipleship ministries we do each week.  You will see the setting that we enter each week and the challenges that exist.  This is NOT a time for us to attempt to make you impressed by us; rather this is for you to see, first hand, the life and struggles that residents of the slums face everyday.   I don't want you to focus on the heaviness alone.  I hope you will all see the beauty that comes through this ministry.  The beauty that comes from a life encountering the Saviour despite their harsh lives.  

Since coming to Kenya last year, I have learned that there are over 400 different "Christian" ministries operating in the Kibera slum alone.  These ministries do everything from feed children to train adults with vocational skills.  I walk the streets of these slums every week and have never met another ministry that is meeting people where THEY are with the love of Christ.  Again, this is not something for you to think we are particularly great for doing.  In fact, it makes me sad that there are so few ministries bringing the ultimate life-change to a people so in need of it.  Sure, feeding children and providing hope for lives challenges is wonderful.  I commend these organizations for their work.  But food will only fill your stomach for so long.  Jobs will come and go.  Life WILL bring you new challenges that are often unexpected (James 1:2).  Jesus is the only one who can bring a long-lasting, eternal change for ALL.  

Please share this blog with others and stay tuned yourselves for this impending video.  And if you have not signed up to be a part of helping lives grow through the Share the Growth program.  We encourage you to do so.  This is where you can be a part of more than simply sending funds.  YOU can be a part of actual ministry!  Cool thought isn't it?

Sunday, March 1, 2009

Siku ku (A great day)...



and Shaggy cried...
(Shaggy is Thomas' dog that happens to live with us)

 
Friday, Zippy and I wasted no time.  We began getting ready for Saturday by cutting up 10 chickens for our Big Pastor Pomoja ([Get] together) . (Kinda catchy, huh?)  EVERYONE who is part of the ministry team in anyway- be it the slums or Livingstone- came out for a great time and great food!  

Really, I cut the legs and wings off and handed it to Zipporah to do the rest.  
Let the games begin!


Both Thomas's doing the grilling.

The kids playing on the front porch.

I know I'm a bit partial to these boys (and Sylvia too)- so i took a lot of pictures of them.   I just stand back so often watching these 2 boys (especially the boys b/c they were so, so sick).  I'm very much in awe of how God brought us to these boys and this family.  It is a miracle to watch them grow, eat, play and learn when they could hardly walk when we first met.  After talking with Tafrosa this week- we both found it tough to think they might not be alive right now.  Thank the Lord for his love and protection over them.  He must have some very special plans for their futures.   
Absolutely irresistible!



This guy had a cup cake in the right hand and a cookie in the left.  

These guys had a blast!  Busy day for them- riding a matatu, eating lots of yummy food, watching TV, swinging, playing, and of course having desserts!  
From the yard to the porch to the living room...

   ... now to the TV





Pastor wanted me to take his picture whilst EATING the kuku.  
"nom, nom, nom"

It was very cool having Kibera, Kawangware, and Livingstone staff all together in one place. This was the first time Zippy had met any of them.  Paul took to her rather quickly.  Noah's wife Lucy is at her side with Baldwin- the fattest baby I've ever seen.  So cute! 
Monica and Lucy chowing down

Tuesday, February 24, 2009

Amani ya Juu

After being here for almost 8 months I just now- FINALLY visited Amani ya Juu (higher peace).  I have heard so much about it and I'm so thankful I got to go today.  Honestly, I didn't know that much about it.  I thought it was some sort of sewing project for women with AIDS.  I found out today that it is so much more than a sewing project.  
Most of the women are marginalized and must carry the burdens of poverty, corruption, and war.  The intent of this project is to empower women phycially and spiritually in these unjust conditions. 

We got there early enough to join their devotions and prayers.  What a treat!  After that they welcomed us and introduced themselves to us.  They went around the room and about 30 women told us their names and where they were from.  About half way around a lady said "Hi, my name is Lucy and I'm from Southern Sudan."  Of course my ears perked up as I have learned so much about Sudan in the past couple years.  (I have actually been to a forum where I was in the same room with a man from Darfur.  I wanted to talk to him so bad- but never got the chance.  I feel like I know many people from Sudan from the books I've read)  Afterwards all the women came and hugged and hugged us.  I have never felt so loved as a visitor!  Finally- Lucy and I made eye contact.  We walked toward each other- she was beaming.  I told her how sorry I was for her home country; how I have wept for her people and for the war that continues there.  I told her that I have been praying for Sudan and reminded her that God has already won the battle and He IS there... in the midst of that war.  I was a sobbing mess by this point and she began to cry.  At this we decided to just hug for a while and cry.  It felt good.  A perfect stranger- but sisters in Christ meeting for the first time.  I got to hear just a little of Lucy's story.  She fled Sudan with only her husband.  Now- she has 5 beautiful children in Kenya. 
[For those of you who are like myself 2 years ago and know little to nothing about the war in Sudan- here is a paper I wrote a while back for a quick/ simple picture on what Sudan has been enduring.]
Later I found out that Amani ya Juu started with 3 women.  Two from Sudan and one from Rwanda.  Among those 3 was Lucy.  Now it has grown to 50 women from 18 different ethnic groups all across central and eastern Africa.  A sister center has been established in Kigali, Rwanda to meet the many desperate needs of women in this war torn country.  A portion of the start up costs for the project was provided by the women of Amani Ya Juu in Nairobi through the savings of their proceeds.  The project in Rwanda is also self-sustaining and promotes the same philosophy and mission.   

Tye Dying... or "bateek".  This is fascinating.  They make their own fabrics by taking a stamp and dipping it in hot wax then press a pattern on the fabric.  After it dries they dye it Then wash it in cold water so the wax falls off.   



Lucy on my right and Monik from the Congo on my left.  She has only been in Kenya 4 years.  Don't you just wonder what all these women have been through in this lifetime?  
Another lady (not pictured) fled from Rwanda during the genocide where she lost her grandparents among other family members)


Us girls with our Amani Loot!  In the background there are about 98729457 families (white) with their adopted kenyan children.  This must be the place for play dates.  Just smidgen of jealousy in my heart.  (But it's good jealousy... if you can have that.)  
My purchases today:  ( I know it is backwards- that is the way Mac's do things).  It's a sign for the front door that says "Karibu" (Welcome). 
I was really excited.  Not only was the purse super cute and going to a great cause but it was on sale!  It was originally 2,200 ksh.  THEN it was marked down to 1690 ksh, THEN marked down again to 840 ksh!!!  Some of you might be laughing that I'm being frugal to charity... but remember- missionary here: still have to be careful with the $$.)  PS- got my pink shirt in Kibera for about $1.   :)    

So this leads me to my next question.  Most of you ladies have been to pampered chef, tupperware, candle parties- right?  Well, there is such thing as an Amani Ya Juu party.  Only- it goes to a much better cause.  What you do- is someone hosts a party and Amani Ya Juu distribution center in Washington D.C. sends you 70lbs worth of Amani stuff.  Your friends come and buy.  You send the $ to Amani and then send the stuff that didn't sell back to D.C.  It doesn't cost you a dime.  If you want you can specify that you want all purses or all childrens stuff.  So if we threw a party would you guys be interested??  Let me know if you'd show up so we can decide to do one when we get back.  :)  Or you can simply go to the website- pick and order.  But the party would be a great way to see, touch, and smell the cuteness!